I'm going to talk about something different again. Today in going to talk about playing games with my friends. Ok so normally on the weekends I text my friends "asking" them to get online so we can play some games. 10 to 20 minutes later and all but one get online. We decide what to play and we do that for and hour or so. 30 minutes later somebody fails to do a simple task or breaks the rules of a game "because they were loosing" and "that the game wasn't fair" and then all hell breaks loose. I argue that it's not the game it's them and that they should listen, and normally everybody else tries to change the subject to avoid conflict but normally I don't stop until I get an answer. After 15 minutes, I still never get an answer and my day is completely ruined.
So if there's two things you want to do when you're playing with me is to follow the rules and blame yourself.